Is it really time for parents to get their kids back to school again? Let’s address the challenge head-on of how to optimize learning achievements and academic success.
My experience shows that the most important thing parents can do to maximize their children’s love of learning is to expose them to wide variety of learning experiences. Notice and nurture the ones they love.
To maximize their love of life and increase the probability that they will lead a successful and fulfilling life, teach your child to be a mensch—a really good person of noble character and deeds.
Guy Kawasaki writes in Art of the Start that a mensch 1) helps lots of people, 2) does what’s right, and 3) pays back society. On a scale of 1-10, ten being the highest and one the lowest, where do you rate yourself in these three areas?
Our in-house research shows that an increasing number of students are bored, frustrated, off-task and underachieving in school. Furthermore, most students with good and even great grades bored, frustrated and not optimizing their talents.
Many parents today are “CrazyBusy” schlepping their kids all over the place (http://sparkmygenius.com/?p=176).
Look at all this running around and then look at yourself from your child’s position. What does he see, hear, think, and feel? Most of us think we know; many of us do not.
Is there enthusiasm, confidence and motivation to start school? My personal and professional experience says “Probably not much.”
In fact, many students equate school with learning and believe when not in school they don’t have to learn anything. Worse, many children get turned off to learning completely.
That’s where Sparks of Genius can help, for we identify, ignite and nurture the many ways students are smart—often very smart. Students learn to set and accomplish goals they thought were unattainable. We aim to take them “over the top.”
It is my experience that by the age of eight (end second grade), most children with learning challenges know they are “different.” By the age of ten (end of forth grade), most have internalized the idea and the feeling that this difference is not good and they are to some degree slow, incompetent, bad or dumb.
By middle school, well, you get the idea.
Many parents ask “How can I be the change I want to see in my child?”
Here’s an example, more and more students “hate” to write. When was the last time your child saw you writing? What were you writing?
What do you say or do to encourage your child to write?
Have you taught your child that it is polite to return a letter or message he received? Try this. Sit down and write your child a letter. Put it in an envelope and mail it. When it arrives in the mailbox, give it to him. Any response? Tell him nicely and unemotionally to write a response, put it an envelope and mail it to you. Anything happen?
The goal is, of course, for your child to write anything, write a correct address on the envelope, and mail it you.
Of course, in today’s world, it’s more likely your child will respond to an email or instant message. If your child “hates” to write so much, it’s OK to start with emails or instant messaging. “Writing” does not have to be handwriting in the beginning.
Please let me know what works, what doesn’t work, and how you solved the problem.
Lastly, in-house research shows that many parents wait at least 2-3 months into the new school year before taking action to help their child. Some wait a year or more hoping “the problem will go away.”
Sparks of Genius is a computerized brain fitness center where students work to:
• improve attention, memory, organization and attitude
• ignite the many ways they are smart
• take more responsibility for their own learning
• use computer technology to reduce frustration and impulsivity
Don’t wait 2-3 or six months into the new school year before taking action to help your child. See if “working out” in our “electronic playground” with a personal trainer can increase your child’s grades, motivation and self-esteem.
If you live in South Florida call 561-859-4060 now to schedule a
FREE 30 minute workout in the Electronic Playground.
Curious and live outside the South Florida area? Take the free learning assessment at http://www.sparksofgenius.com/screens.html
-Dr. Rohn Kessler
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